This month, our focus is Asset #7*: Community Values Youth
Young person perceives that adults in the community value youth.
Category: External Asset
Subcategory and Icon: Empowerment and yellow sun
Nationally, 22% of youth report having this asset.
5 Ways to Build Community Values Youth
- When a young person waits on you at a fast food restaurant or store, greet them in a friendly manner.
- Ask a young person to help you with a skill or hobby that YOU are good at so he or she can learn your skill or hobby, too.
- Ask a young person to teach you a skill that he or she is good at so you can learn something new.
- Encourage youth to get involved in community service… better yet, serve the community together.
- Let young people know that who they are and the things they do make a difference. Find ways to empower them and let them shine.
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Young people need models, not critics. – John Wooden
*The 40 Developmental Assets are relationships, values and qualities that help kids succeed. The Assets were developed by Search Institute in Minneapolis, MN and are being promoted by a local youth development initiative called THRIVE. For more information on THRIVE, call 573-651-3747, ext. 118 or visit our website www.capecountythrive.com
This month, our focus is Asset #6*: Parent Involvement in Schooling
Parents are actively involved in helping young person succeed in school.
Category: External Asset
Subcategory and Icon: Support and red heart
Nationally, 29% of youth report having this asset. School is out for summer, but a new year is just weeks away!
5 Ways to Build Parent Involvement in Schooling
- Make sure you child knows that you expect him or her to graduate from high school and talk about your expectation frequently.
- Encourage your child to attend school regularly and to do his or her best.
- Attend open houses, conferences, and other school events when possible.
- Get to know you child’s teachers and let them know that you want to work together to ensure your child’s success.
- Celebrate school milestones, progress, and success.
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Virtually every issue we deal with, be it education, be it human services, gang problems or drugs, we find strong families the ultimate solution. – Van Goethe
*The 40 Developmental Assets are relationships, values and qualities that help kids succeed. The Assets were developed by Search Institute in Minneapolis, MN and are being promoted by a local youth development initiative called THRIVE. For more information on THRIVE, call 573-651-3747, ext. 118 or visit our website www.capecountythrive.com
This month, our focus is Asset #5*: Caring School Climate
School provides a caring, encouraging environment.
Category: External Asset
Subcategory and Icon: Support and red heart
Nationally, 29% of youth report having this asset.
5 Ways to Build a Caring School Climate
- Adopt the motto 40-24/7! (40 Assets, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week) Commit to INTENTIONAL asset building and stick with it!
- Look for students who seem disengaged and find a way to connect with them with positive peers and adult role models.
- Find opportunities for youth to teach others (even adults) about something that interests them.
- Smile! It makes everyone seem friendlier and more approachable.
- Communication and relationships are important. It is easier to develop both if you haven’t already passed judgment on the other person.
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There is a brilliant child locked inside every student. It is up to us to find a connection and free him!
*The 40 Developmental Assets are relationships, values and qualities that help kids succeed. The Assets were developed by Search Institute in Minneapolis, MN and are being promoted by a local youth development initiative called THRIVE. For more information on THRIVE, call 573-651-3747, ext. 118 or visit our website www.capecountythrive.com
This month, our focus is Asset #4*: Caring Neighborhood
Young person experiences caring neighbors.
Category: External Asset
Subcategory and Icon: Support and red heart
Nationally, 37% of youth report having this asset.
5 Ways to Build a Caring Neighborhood
- Take walks through your neighborhood and chat with people who are outside.
- Identify a neighbor that your child can go to if he’s locked out of the house or needs help.
- Set up a neighborhood garage sale or barbecue. Encourage others to participate by inviting them personally.
- Get to know the kids in the neighborhood. They are great resources when you need a babysitter, someone to walk your dog, water your plants, or mow your grass.
- Stop at the lemonade stands, even when the lemonade is sour and was made by grubby little hands.
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We cannot always build the future for our youth, but we can build our youth for the future. ~Franklin D. Roosevelt
*The 40 Developmental Assets are relationships, values and qualities that help kids succeed. The Assets were developed by Search Institute in Minneapolis, MN and are being promoted by a local youth development initiative called THRIVE. For more information on THRIVE, call 573-651-3747, ext. 118 or visit our website www.capecountythrive.com
This month, our focus is Asset #3*: Other Adult Relationships
Youth receives support from 3 or more non-parent adults.
Category: External Asset
Subcategory and Icon: Support and red heart
Nationally, 43% of youth report having this asset.
5 Ways to Build Other Adult Relationships
- Get together with another family to play a board game or softball. Your kids can get to know other parents and you can get to know other children.
- Participate in community groups that encourage intergenerational interaction like Girl Scouts, sports teams, or a church play.
- Share a skill with youth from your neighborhood. Teach them how to bake, plant flowers, or change a car tire. Find other parents who are willing to share their skills with your child.
- Get to know your child’s teacher. Teachers spend a significant amount of time with children and can be great allies for parents!
- Encourage your child to express appreciation to meaningful adults in his life. Help him bake a cake, make thank-you cards, or draw a picture.
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Every child should have caring adults in his life.
*The 40 Developmental Assets are relationships, values and qualities that help kids succeed. The Assets were developed by Search Institute in Minneapolis, MN and are being promoted by a local youth development initiative called THRIVE. For more information on THRIVE, call 573-651-3747, ext. 118 or visit our website www.capecountythrive.com
This month, our focus is Asset #2*: Positive Family Communication
Family communication is positive and open.
Category: External Asset
Subcategory and Icon: Support and red heart
Nationally, 28% of youth report having this asset.
5 Ways to Build Positive Family Communication
- Eat a meal together every day. Make it fun by starting a tradition, like Wednesday night tacos or Saturday morning waffles.
- Look at your child when you speak to him. Eye contact lets him know you are listening and care.
- When your child is emotional, help her name her emotion, like thrilled, angry, frustrated, or excited. Being able to identify emotions will make her a better communicator.
- Set a few minutes aside each day to spend with your children. Let them decide what to talk about or do.
- Choose a common interest and develop it together. Be willing to teach and learn from your child.
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Spend time talking to, laughing with, and holding your child.
*The 40 Developmental Assets are relationships, values and qualities that help kids succeed. The Assets were developed by Search Institute in Minneapolis, MN and are being promoted by a local youth development initiative called THRIVE. For more information on THRIVE, call 573-651-3747, ext. 118 or visit our website www.capecountythrive.com
This month, our focus is Developmental Asset #1*: Family Support
Family life provides high levels of love and support.
Category: External Asset
Subcategory and Icon: Support and red heart
Nationally, 68% of youth report having this asset.
9 Creative Ways to Build Family Support
- Do something new together. Instead of a walk, go jogging…or skipping.
- If possible, eat at least one meal a day together.
- Choose a book to read together as a family. Each day read 10 pages.
- Ask about the highs and lows in your child’s day. Tell about your day.
- Every day show love through hugs, words, and smiles.
- Frame your child’s artwork and hang it on the wall.
- Give your child space to think, rest, and rejuvenate.
- Lie under the stars and talk about whatever crosses your mind.
- Write “family care” resolutions and keep them!
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Nurture children with good food, good words, and good fun. Build Assets…THRIVE
*The 40 Developmental Assets are relationships, values and qualities that help kids succeed. The Assets were developed by Search Institute in Minneapolis, MN and are being promoted by a local youth development initiative called THRIVE. For more information on THRIVE, call (573) 651-3747, ext. 118 or visit our website www.capecountythrive.com
